When I was around six or seven years old I loved to play house with my friends and cousins. I was a persistent kid, so when I played I felt like my role always had to be that of the father figure. I wanted to take care of my pretend family and when it was time to go to bed I definitely wanted to kiss my pretend wife. Looking back at that moment as an adult, I think that was my very first clue. Today I identify as a lesbian and although taking care of my family is a priority, I truly enjoy being taken care of & kissed by my real wife!